well unanimously most of us would cite 2 Corinthians 13 that love is patient, it is kind, it doesnt envy, it doesnt boast etc etc.
and obviously it is the right definition because the bible tells it so but here is something i bumped in this season:
love is a choice
it sure is. un lang think about it and it will all go back to you. it is a choice to be kind, to be patient. if that was so, then unloving a person is a choice too.
you dont fell out of love, you chose to love the person less and less each day. and by doing so, you just wake up one day and you do not love your so called significant other anymore.
it is a choice to keep a relationship.
it is a choice to make it work.
it is a choice to love.